Don't criticize, condemn or complain

WOW... I have never realized how difficult this can be. I am so happy to see how bad I am at this because I now can work at improving it. I have been such a critical person my whole life. I don't know why but I don't like that about me. I don't like knowing it except for now I can do something about it. It is unbelievably challenging to change also. Choosing to look past a negatives and focus on the positives. I feel like I could spend my life time just figuring that one out, I hope it doesn't take that long! I need to keep in mind how flawed I am for starters. Also how good it feels to make someone see the good in them self!